Commitment, honesty, loyalty are the bedrock of a good and successful relationship, of course love, which is the first step to a relationship. The sure path to a failed relationship is the opposite of the aforementioned; uncommitted to the relationship, dishonesty in the relationship, and disloyalty in the relationship. The fear of these factors will not help the success of a relationship.
Commitment: some individuals have problem of being committed to a relationship, the fear of losing their freedom, the fear of taking up a responsibility. They fear their heart being broken. What ever the problem is, it is a fact that some situations fear will control ones life.
Once there is one who is ready to be committed to a relationship, but without someone who is ready to be committed, then you have to stay back, or else your fears will come through. Assuming there Is someone ready to be committed and your fears still linger. The first thing to do conquer fear is to admit that you are scared, that you have a problem, with your self admission, the problem is half solved. Be will to open your mind and consult reliable people about your fear, they will be able to see, what you are dread of, and be able to help you accordingly.
After admitting your fear(problem)- never pretending that all is well, nothing is wrong. At this point of opening-up to people to discuss your fear, cautious must be taking in order not to go to the wrong source for solution. There are a lot of ways to explore to deal with it and to get over it. you can consult an expert in the field to discuss with, a reliable friend or family member that you know that has the experience that deal with such issue, not just to start taking to anybody for taking sake, or else you might have more problem to cope with. If you can not find or you don’t have the necessary solutions to alleviate your fear, there is still more to do. You look for someone who has such issue but has over it, for his or her expert advice, and better still you can go online to look for a relationship forum and search for fear related discussion groups. This will enable you to list to what other people with related concern are saying and what they are doing about it to get ride of it.
Lastly, never start a relationship when you still have the fear of be committed, because it will always be at the back of your mind not to be committed in the relationship, and unconsciously it dictate your actions.
